Caged Jock (CJ), an early-thirtysomething Texas native turned New Yorker, is a sexual liberationist. Don’t believe me? Well, just check out his website (but not at work because it is quite racy), which explores and educates all willing to learn about the eroticism of the chastity fetish.

Whether it’s your cup of tea or not, CJ is doing something quite special. He’s creating a safe space for those willing to embrace their kink safely, educating and empowering them every step of the way. And with over 90,000 followers, he’s not only doing something right but successfully creating a movement rooted in a sex-positive mindset.

But that’s just one part of the story.

Beneath the chastity belt is also a loving fiancé, talented creative, and most importantly, a humble human. And as you’ll soon learn for yourself, CJ has a powerful story to tell as a Vietnamese immigrant who fought hard to discover and embrace himself, despite the well-intentioned but traumatizing restrictive beliefs of conservative parents.

There’s a lot we can learn from CJ. But perhaps the most important lesson he teaches us is that there is hope. To find and embrace your kink. To come to terms with your past. To learn to love yourself and others. To accomplish your goals. To be the person you’ve always hoped to be, and be loved for it. But don’t take my word for it….

Experience CJ’s Pillow Talk Journey:



From TX to NYC: A Liberation Story

Masculinity & A (Missing) Father-and-Son Connection

Relationships: The Power of Acceptance, Freedom, and Trust

Caged Jock & The Power of Embracing Your Kink