From the “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy required in his relationship with his mother to the lack of true friendship in the gay community, Tobias, a late-twentysomething in New York City, has been forced to retreat into himself due to constant disappointment.

But he’s hell-bent on building the world he knows can exist, teeming with positive friendships, supportive relationships, and true acceptance.

Experience Tobias’s Pillow Talk journey below:


Masculinity: Never Measuring Up
Tobias1Yearning for a Mother’s Love
Tobais3Sex & Sexuality: Everyone Else’s Problem